Networking is a crucial skill in both personal and professional life. Whether you’re attending a conference, seeking job opportunities, or simply looking to expand your social circle, effective networking can open doors and create valuable connections. However, there are certain do’s and don’ts to keep in mind to make the most of your networking efforts.

The Do’s:

  1. 1. Be Genuine: Authenticity is key. When networking, be yourself and show a genuine interest in others. People are more likely to connect with and help those they feel are sincere.
  2. Set Clear Goals: Know what you want to achieve through networking. Whether it’s finding a mentor, job leads, or business partnerships, having clear objectives will help you focus your efforts.
  3. Listen Actively: Effective networking is not just about talking; it’s also about listening. Show interest in others, ask questions, and listen attentively. This will help you learn from their experiences and build rapport.
  4. Follow Up: After making a connection, follow up with an email or message to express your gratitude and continue the conversation. This shows that you value the connection and are committed to building it.
  5. Provide Value: Networking is a two-way street. Offer your expertise, help, or resources to others without expecting immediate returns. Generosity can lead to stronger relationships.


The Don’ts:

  1. Don’t Oversell Yourself: While it’s important to highlight your strengths, avoid coming across as arrogant or self-centered. Humility is a virtue in networking.
  2. Avoid Being Pushy: Building relationships takes time, and pushing for immediate benefits can be counterproductive. Let connections develop naturally.
  3. Don’t Neglect Your Online Presence: In today’s digital age, your online presence matters. Maintain a professional online profile, and be mindful of what you share on social media platforms.
  4. Don’t Neglect In-Person Networking: While online networking is valuable, don’t forget the power of in-person interactions. Attend events, conferences, and seminars to meet people face to face.
  5. Don’t Forget to Follow Up: We mentioned this as a “do,” but it’s also a “don’t” if you neglect it. Failing to follow up can lead to missed opportunities and damage your networking efforts.

Remember that networking is not about quantity but quality. It’s about building meaningful connections that can benefit you and others over time. By following these do’s and don’ts, you can navigate the world of networking more effectively, creating a network of valuable relationships that can enhance both your personal and professional life.

Put these tips into practice at the upcoming Network “n” Chill: 2023 Season Finale & Classic Edition on November 20, 2023, at ASU’s The Nest. Register here for this free networking event!